Siblings - The good and the bad

Today I will be talking to you about Siblings. Yes I know what you're thinking, probably something like "Ughhh seriously, that is the worst topic". But really it's not. 

I have three siblings of my own, Elijah (11), William (8) and Indigo (7 months). Living in a reasonably small house with 4 children and only one adult, we have our good and bad days. Sometimes I feel like there is nothing worse than having multiple siblings and I wish they would just go away. But other times they make me feel all warm and fuzzy and I'm ever so glad to have my siblings around. 

I know they can be annoying and I totally feel your pain but sometimes you just have to breathe and put up with their nonsense. One day you'll be glad you stuck with them. 

In saying that though, it is also really important you have your own space that you can go if you ever need to be alone. This could be your room, a space outside or even the library or a place outside of your home. Make your room your safe place, have pillows, music and chocolate ready for whenever you need it. Yes it's true, these things make everything better. 😋 

What are your siblings like? Let me know in the comments.

Saraya xxx

Concerns

This post is about what you should do if you think someone you know is in danger of being harmed, physically or emotionally. 

The best thing for you to do is talk to the person if they are a close friend of yours or even just a person in your class. Find out as much as you can without seeming rude or upsetting the person. Then once you know something about what's going on, let a teacher or parent know. They will generally take it from there, either contacting 'kids helpline' or another kids help group. 

If the person has told you not to tell an adult or teacher, the best thing for you to probably do is to call  'kids helpline' yourself or visit their website. The other option is to just tell an adult anyway even though they told you not to. Only do this though if you think they are in immediate danger. 

Sometimes it can be hard to go against your friend's wishes but if they are in danger of being harmed or injured it is always best to follow your heart and do what you think is right. 

I hope this helps you,

Saraya xxx

Getting over your fear

Fear is a huge thing that stops us from being safe. 

Sometimes there are things that happen that you have no control over. These things can hurt you more than people realise. It can be terribly hard to tell someone about what is going on in your life, I discovered though through a lot of pain and thought, that it is heaps better to tell someone who you love or care about. I started with my fabulous friends who are just incredibly supportive and I care about them so much.

I had been through a lot as a child and had basically learnt that you can trust no one. 

This isn't true!

Sure, you have to be careful who you trust, don't just go around telling everyone your personal story. But there are definitely people who you can trust with nearly everything. These people vary depending on who you have in your life. They might be your friends, you parents, your old siblings, your grandparents or even your teacher. No matter who it is, as long as they love or care about you and you feel the same way about them, they could be the person to talk to. 

Trust me, you will feel so much better once someone knows about what you're going through. And remember there is always someone who will love you.

Saraya xxx

Welcome to 'Chatting it out'

Welcome readers to 'Chatting it out'!

'Chatting it out' is a blog designed for readers any age but mainly for children between 9 and 16. It is an outlet for any feelings that you have been holding in and just want to let out. It is completely secure and none of your stories will be shared with anyone outside of the blogspace. 

My name is Saraya and I am 14 years old. Since I was 8, I have been the victim of physical abuse and only recently I reached out and told my incredible friends who completely supported me. I have found my life to be so much more enjoyable since I told someone and "chatted it out". 

Anything you share in the comments on this page will be kept between me and other readers on this page. Share as little or as much as you feel comfortable to. 

It doesn't have to be a severe issue, even just that you sibling is annoying you. (Yes I completely understand that seeing I have 3 siblings of my own). 

I'm looking forward to getting to know everyone, I hope you feel comfortable sharing your problems with me in the space. 

Hopefully talk soon, 

Saraya xxx